<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Dear Head of Mine: DHM Confidential ]]></title><description><![CDATA[For paid subscribers, periodic behind-the-scenes posts about this week's essay and other miscellaneous musings on book publishing, art, and life.]]></description><link>https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/s/dhm-confidential</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!7Apx!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6a73351a-d291-49da-909f-3e0f6e91c96f_1280x1280.png</url><title>Dear Head of Mine: DHM Confidential </title><link>https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/s/dhm-confidential</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 15:38:48 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[dearheadofmine@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[dearheadofmine@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[dearheadofmine@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[dearheadofmine@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[DHM Confidential Vol. #2]]></title><description><![CDATA[Super Constraints&#8212;Better than Creative Freedom?]]></description><link>https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/dhm-confidential-vol-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/dhm-confidential-vol-2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2026 18:22:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dXOD!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb333b530-ea2f-404b-b249-bb9eb15ce011_1545x1999.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><em><span>The Invite </span></em><span>is a whole movie that takes place in a single, extremely beautiful, apartment in San Francisco. There are a grand total of four actors&#8212;two neighboring couples that have a dinner party. The runtime is 1 hour and 47 minutes. </span><a href="https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/2026-looks-a-lot-like-the-early-2000s"><span>This week&#8217;s newsletter </span></a><span>considered the cultural regression this year in publishing has been. </span><em><span>The Invite </span></em><span>is a more welcome kind of throwback. A time twenty or thirty years ago when you could walk into a theater without buying a ticket in advance, go see a movie whose runtime was under two hours, walk out while the sun is still shining and go about the rest of your day. One old New York lady behind us in the theater remarked &#8220;it could&#8217;ve been a play&#8221; (delightful, but wrong). In a world where every director feels like they&#8217;re a dinner guest overstaying their welcome, </span><em><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt14173636/"><span>The Invite</span></a><span> </span></em><span>is a film based on super constraints&#8212;one setting, four people in a room&#8212; that results in more creativity than your average four-hour fantasy, sci-fi, superhero blockbuster.</span></p><p><span>The film, directed by Oliva Wilde and written by Cesc Gay, Will McCormack, and Rashida Jones, got me thinking about the role extremely confined stories play in enhancing creative freedom. Very few artists, even great ones, do their best work with unlimited resources and choices. Even directors and writers like Martin Scorsese or Stephen King, who are still putting out amazing work, were at their best when they didn&#8217;t have unlimited run times and page counts.</span></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dXOD!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb333b530-ea2f-404b-b249-bb9eb15ce011_1545x1999.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dXOD!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb333b530-ea2f-404b-b249-bb9eb15ce011_1545x1999.png 424w, 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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[DHM Confidential Vol. #1]]></title><description><![CDATA[No One Knows What Good Writing Is&#8212; How About Bad?]]></description><link>https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/dhm-confidential-vol-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/dhm-confidential-vol-1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sean deLone]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2026 20:32:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span>Welcome to DHM Confidential (Vol. #1), a new series for paid subscribers. Thank you for your long and continuing support! In addition to the free weekly newsletter, I&#8217;ll be occasionally adding a shorter form missive<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-1" href="#footnote-1" target="_self">1</a> on the week&#8217;s newsletter or something else in publishing, art, or life. I&#8217;ll try to break my own self-imposed writing rule for good essay writing and use &#8220;I&#8221; more to keep things a bit more casual. Here goes&#8230;</span></p><p><span>This week I made the somewhat provocative statement that &#8220;</span><a href="https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/p/no-one-knows-what-good-writing-is"><span>No One Knows What Good Writing Is</span></a><span>.&#8221; I joked in one of the footnotes that voters might prove this statement wrong depending on how they judged a few writing samples. However, I was pleasantly surprised to be&#8230;completely right.</span></p><p><span>Readers roundly voted on nine sentences and paragraphs from incredibly well-respected books and authors as mostly passable or actively bad. The best rating any of the writing samples received was a 50% &#8220;good&#8221; rating (shoutout, as always, to </span><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/120173/9781982153090"><span>Jen Beagin</span></a><span>). These results proved a bit of a hypothesis. The poll results, reactions, and reader commentary gave me a few extra thoughts on the three ways I pointed out that readers are subconsciously judging what good writing is. It also made me consider, in contrast, what is </span><em><span>bad</span></em><span> writing and what exactly are most readers taking for granted?</span></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png" width="311" height="402.41050903119867" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:788,&quot;width&quot;:609,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:311,&quot;bytes&quot;:119077,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://dearheadofmine.substack.com/i/206741695?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zVk8!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f68bcb3-a3ef-4173-8b2c-98cc26b68be2_609x788.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg aria-hidden="true" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div>
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